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Why You Should Do Things with Her but Not For Her

Her but Not For Her

Every woman wants that knight in shining armor; the man who will sweep her off her feet. But men everywhere should make the distinction between the romantic pictures this age old analogy paints and exactly what women want from them. It is a long running joke that men will never understand exactly what women want. They are after all from Venus and Martians have a hard time navigating the emotionally charged universe the women live in.

That’s why it can be sometimes confusing to find all your efforts to pursue and impress her go unappreciated. You buy her flowers, you paint her house, you fix her sink but you can feel you are very far from gaining her love. The problem is, you are dong thing for her instead of with her and as much as she may enjoy a helping hand once in a while, doing thing with her will get you further and here’s why;

Her but Not For Her

  1. She can Get to Know You

For a woman to fall hopelessly in-love with you, she needs to feel safe with you and she can only do that is she knows you. She needs to know what you stand for before she can fully trust you and the easiest way for her to get to know you is doing things with her. If you love food, consider taking her to the local farmer’s market. If you love music, take her to a concert. Let her see how passionate you are about the things you love and she will love you.

  1. You Get to Know Her

On the flip side doing things with her allows you to get to know her in a deeper level. You also get to see what kind of person she is and what is she is passionate about. In the early stages of the relationship this can be invaluable to the future of the relationship.

  1. You Can Easily Grow Your Intimacy

Doing things together especially during intimacy can help you learn more about her likes and dislikes. For example, you can share your affinity for sex toys such as black sex dolls with her and see how she feels about it. She may be more open to the idea than you think. Talking about it and allowing her the safe space to share her fantasies with you as well, it one way to have a healthy, adventurous sex life.

  1. You Can Easily Navigate Emotional Problems

When you send time doing things together, you practice proper communication and emotional intimacy. Couples who share a high level of emotional intimacy rarely suffer catastrophic relationship problems. And when an issue arises, they already have the necessary skills to get to the bottom of the problem and fix it.

it is also important to remember that a woman will respect you a lot more when you are willing to take time off your busy schedule to do things with her. Taking her dancing is far more valuable than sending her generic flowers.

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